Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski

The book is a groundbreaking exploration of the science behind female sexuality, debunking common myths and providing a comprehensive understanding of the factors that influence sexual well-being. It emphasizes the uniqueness of every woman's sexual journey and the role of stress, mood, trust, and body image in shaping sexual experiences. The author combines psychology, anatomy, and personal anecdotes to empower women to embrace their sexuality, understand their bodies, and pursue authentic sexual pleasure. The central message is that women's sexual experiences are normal and that understanding the dual control model of sexual response can lead to healthier and more satisfying sex lives.

The 10440th greatest book of all time


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Total Points: 42

Since this book was first published in 2015, there is a penalty of 65.6%. The age adjusted score is 14.45.

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